Mutti Chronicles

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 13:38:30 +0000

Just pondering. Cuz that’s pretty much the only thing I have to do lately.

If your “friend” came to you and said they were thinking about a reconciliation wouldn’t you encourage that? Wouldn’t you want that to happen and be happy for them, if you were truly just a “friend”? Why would you discourage that and say you would be very deeply hurt if he did? Because you didn’t want it to happen and you had your own goals in mind that’s why. And just a month before weren’t you in love with your husband? So you’re both lying cheaters. Plain and simple.

I give up at this point. But I still think we were meant to be together. Lying cheater or not.

Wed, 27 Jan 2010 01:19:17 +0000

New rant…
I’m not supposed to be doing this stuff alone. I’m supposed to be doing stuff with my husband. But since he’s decided to be a lying cheater and fall in love with his “friend” I’m on my own. I don’t have anywhere to live as of 31 May. Because I’m sure not living here for another year. I can’t get any information about my medical coverage. But yet I have to pay on time or I’ll get cut off. I don’t know where to live. I don’t know what I’ll do about a job when I get there. My life pretty much sucks at the moment. But I rejoice in the fact that he’s paying for a house again which was already paid for. So since no one wants to listen to this stuff and apparently I’m the only one who cares, I’ll have to write it down. Oh and I also have to figure out how to do taxes which should be a big mess. But he gets to live happily ever after with his new children. And they’re all one big happy family over there. What the hell did I do to deserve this? Hopefully there’s something better waiting for me out there somewhere. If there’s not, what’s the point?

Fri, 01 Jan 2010 01:25:16 +0000

Last rant of the year.
He not only got my house, he got my home. Even though I was not in love with the house itself, it was my home. I spent 15 years there. Raised my children there. Raised several dogs there. Spent a lot of time there. Waited, waited, waited, faithfully I might add, for his Army career to be over so we could do things together. Travel, do stuff together. And now he has decided he wants to do the “stuff” with another woman. Another woman with 2 children. Another woman who left her husband for him. I imagine the husband got tired of sharing his wife with another man. I imagine she was tired of me being tired of my husband spending all his time with another woman. Let’s not forget she was married at the time. Let’s not forget he was married at the time. Let’s not forget they each got the “homes”. And the spouses they were going to honor and cherish til death do us part-get crap.

Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:57:47 +0000

What a surprise! They both went to the same movie. Shocker there. They both registered for the same half marathon. No surprise there. Wondering if the asshole realizes that’s the same weekend his son gets his doctorate. Probably not. Cuz you now running with his “friend” is everything.

Sun, 13 Dec 2009 02:01:01 +0000

I got nothin….

Except ddw. Unfortunately, not true. Distance does not do wonders.

He chose his “friend” over his wife. Cuz she would’ve been deeply hurt otherwise.

Thu, 03 Dec 2009 00:06:40 +0000

I am thinking about having a bumper sticker printed up…”Let’s not forget about Karl”. Yeah, I keep forgetting him. His former wife left him for my former husband.

Tue, 24 Nov 2009 21:48:03 +0000

No apologies for the previous post. The truth hurts.

Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:51:21 +0000

Dear S,
Now that everything is officially in the record books, I can tell you exactly what I think of you. You’re a lying, cheating little slutty whore-bitch. You cheated on your husband with my husband. I don’t know what you did but I can guess that you somehow convinced him that he should love you and not me. And I quote from the end of April…”oh Barbara I love you and I don’t want a divorce. There’s nothing going on with her we’re just running”. I quote from 15 May..”.I am not going to make any rash decisions about us and I have hopes for us.” What happened? Did he tell you that you and he were done as friends if he came back to me? Or did you tell him he couldn’t be your friend if he came back. Sounds like it. He didn’t even give any reconciliation a chance. In my book if you tell someone you love them while married to someone else, you’re a cheater. So now you’ve got him. And he’ll be stuck with your children for about 10 years. He could’ve had the house in NS but now he’ll be sharing it with me. So you’ll be stuck with me for a long time. I’ll be in his head anyway. I still love him and I’d take him back in a minute. But you’ve got your claws in him. But I’ve got his money. So, fuck you. And btw ddw.

Wed, 21 Oct 2009 02:19:39 +0000

Deleted previous post. Maybe too harsh. But I meant it. If you read it, good for you.

Wed, 30 Sep 2009 20:25:48 +0000

Read it. Don’t read it. Makes no difference. Tomorrow the past 34 years will be decided. It won’t be final but it will be written down on paper in preparation for the final decree. The way I see it she is to blame for everything. Not that he is without blame. And neither m I. I saw it coming and didn’t do anything to stop it. But then neither did he. Maybe her husband wasn’t good enough for her. Maybe he didn’t have a prestigious enough job. Maybe he wasn’t interested enough in her dancing, singing, blah, blah, blah. She’s probably used to being the cute little sister who is the center of attention all the time. Oh isn’t she cute. And perky. But I think she convinced him that the more he stayed away from me the less he would have to care about me. And the more she stayed away from her husband the less she would have to care about him. So the two of them imagined a life where they would just run and dance and sing all the time and wouldn’t they be so happy if they were together. And he can just wipe out any memories of his own children and start over again with hers. Oh, won’t they have such a wonderful life together. If only they could somehow get rid of their spouses. So each came up with a bunch of excuses, make that lies, so they could get out of their marriages. I know his were lies I’m not sure about her stories to her husband. I know his excuses to me were a load of crap. He hasn’t loved me for 10 years. He only made love to me because he’s a guy and guys are pigs. That is the most insensitive thing anyone has ever said to anyone. And oh yes, I let myself go too much. She fits into his new image better. Young, athletic and fit. Well I got news for him. He’s gonna get old, no make that he is old, and no matter what he does he can’t stop it.

Hers is final now so only one more step and they can live happily ever after. Oh wait he told me the same thing.

So congratulations to him. He has managed to cause two divorces. I hope it’s a good feeling. Maybe there is someone out there who really will love me forever and who actually believes in til death do us part and for better or worse.